To you, the parent who’s upset because your child lost a sock: Know that at this age, kids are constantly taking off pieces of their clothes. Also know that earlier that same day, he’d lost both of his mittens, but his teacher went out and searched through the snowbanks and found them.
To you, the parent who's upset that your child got bitten for the second timeth times this week. You should know that on the same day, his teacher also kept him from hitting his head when he fell off the back of his chair, from choking when he took bites that were too big, and from tripping while running with his shoelaces untied.
To you, the parent who doesn’t like the methods used by your child’s teacher: Please know that these methods are well thought out and planned, and that it’s very good for your little one to experience things in many different ways.
To you, the parent who worries about leaving your child with someone else: Please know that your child’s teacher chose this profession out of a passion for children, that she understands you are entrusting her with what is most precious to you, and that she will take great care of your child.
To you, the parent who feels that your child’s potty training isn’t progressing fast enough: Please understand that your child’s teacher can’t force the issue or do it for them, and that it’s essential to respect your child’s pace to ensure success.
To you, the parent who thinks your child sleeps too much at daycare: Know that naps have no effect on your child’s nighttime sleep—there are, in fact, plenty of articles on the subject—and that your child’s teacher can’t stop them from sleeping during nap time.
To you, the parent who has doubts about your child’s teacher: Know that behind the words “playing with a ball” lies learning to throw and catch, learning to share, working on coordination, and even learning colors and numbers. Know that behind the words “free play time” lies quality time with the teacher, analysis of group behavior, and much more.
To you, the parent: Learn to see the bigger picture, learn to look beyond appearances, and learn to be open to your child’s teacher. Learn to work with her rather than looking for her flaws. Learn to team up with her, rather than opposing her. Your child will be the one to benefit. And a happy child means a peaceful parent!