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"Time for myself? Yes, please!"
I don’t know about you, but for me, the Covid-19 lockdown has had a really positive effect!
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Honest stories about raising children, everyday family life, and the moments that test, surprise, and delight us.
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323 stories in this section.
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"While You're At It"
That unwritten rule that tells your inner child to think big, to look ahead, and to always have that “while we’re at it” mindset ready.
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3 years, finally!
I have two little ones, ages 1 and 3. I absolutely adore them. They’re so cute. So demanding. Everyone tells me to enjoy it—they grow up so fast.
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48 Thoughts I Had on the First Day of Daycare
Here we go—I’m going back to work. My baby is lucky enough to have a spot in full-time daycare, and I have to get used to the idea: real life is about to b
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A Clash of Values
With the arrival of our little girl in our lives, my partner and I have reevaluated everything: our work schedules, our current jobs, the city where we liv
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A Disillusioned Generation
I’m 37 years old. I had a peaceful childhood during which I could go out to play without my mom being able to track me via GPS… I’d come home when I was hu
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A Leap into the Unknown
I was a preschool teacher. Over the years, I’ve been responsible for nearly a hundred different children.
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A Letter from a Child to His or Her Separated…
Mom, Dad… There have been some big changes in our lives lately. I’m writing this because I can’t seem to find the right moment, the time, or the courage to
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A matter of perspective…
I’m one of those people who see the positive in everything. In every situation I find myself in, I find something beautiful and positive.
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A random thought that just popped into my…
When I was a teenager, my dear dad would often make dinner. When I asked him the classic question, “What’s for dinner?” he’d always give me the same answer
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A Single Parent’s Survival Guide: The Pool
We’re having a beautiful, sunny, and very hot summer. What could be better than enjoying the pool in our backyard? Hours and hours of fun!
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A Slightly Different Resolution
Between Christmas and New Year’s Day, when my partner and I had eaten our fill, our kids had received their wonderful gifts from Santa, and everyone had ma
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A Story About Baseball Mustard
When I became a mom, I didn’t expect to talk so much about my baby’s poop.
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A Survival Guide for Single Parents: Bath Time
It’s all well and good to be a supermom and able to handle two little rascals on my own, but some daily tasks are a lot more complicated for me than others
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A Toolbox
As I’ve gotten older, I’ve come to understand a lot of things. I’ve realized that I learned the hard way what others learned more easily.
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A Tribute to the Women Who Held My Hand
I want to talk about the women we don’t talk about much—whether out of taboo, shame, or fear of admitting our decline, our failure, or even our naivety.
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Adolescence at Age 4
Four years is worse than two years… I can confirm that! The need for affirmation and control is ever-present.
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Advent Calendar 2.0
I've always been the kind of girl who paid more or less attention to traditions. Some of the traditions from my youth have been preserved, but very few.
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Advent Calendar: Goodbye Cheap Chocolate…
Ever since they were little, my daughters have loved Advent calendars.
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Again?
Before I had kids, I thought I had Batman’s immune system. A sinus infection once in a while, no stomach flu, no earaches, no fever, no “ Ahhhh, why does i
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All the love I have for you
My love, we’ve known each other for a long time, long before we became a couple. We used to run into each other often. We had good conversations.
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Am I cut out to be a mom?
When you’re a little girl, you play with dolls. Sometimes you role-play with your brothers and sisters or friends, and that often leads to misunderstanding
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Am I selfish?
I often wondered if having a child was a good idea. I didn't doubt my ability to be a mother; I feared that my child would have to live in an ugly world.
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An Exceptional Woman
Today, I’d like to tell you about an exceptional woman. Let the statistics speak for themselves: As a mother, this woman never slept a full night in 20 yea
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And what about the couple in all this?
Well, it’s time to play outside, make dinner, eat, change diapers, then bath time and the bedtime routine.
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Apples
The end of summer makes us a little nostalgic for that beautiful season that warms our hearts, but let’s not forget our season of colors—fall, of course.
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Baby blues? Don't worry... It'll pass.
No one is immune to a little bout of the blues or depression. On our first night in the hospital, my little princess—my brand-new baby—choked while spittin
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Baby Girl
For as long as I can remember, I’ve always seen myself as the mother of four boys. Well, since relationships involve compromises, we’d agreed on three.
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Baby Thomas’s Pink Bottle
With a title like that, you might think I’ve come up with a little story for your little one.
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Baby's Second Night
The infamous second night in the hospital! Haven’t you heard about it? You’re in for a real ride—just wait and see.
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Back from the Holidays
Just like every year, the holiday season follows the same pattern: parties, staying up late, the usual routine, falling asleep in the car on the way home,
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Back in the Day vs. These Days
Back in the day, families were generally large; having between 10 and 14 children wasn’t unusual.
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Becoming an Aunt During a Pandemic
Becoming an aunt is something I’ve always wanted. I didn’t know if it would be through my own children or not, but I always thought I’d be the “cool” aunt—
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Being a mother is…
Being a mom means going shopping for yourself, but ending up with only things for your child—and being perfectly happy about it.
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Being a Parent: An Exceptional Privilege
When I got my first car, my father told me, “Magalie, driving isn’t a right—it’s a privilege.
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Being where I need to be
Always rushing around—in traffic, at home, at work. Always running late—with my tasks at work, at home, and with my bills.
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Brush, brush, brush... I'm brushing my teeth!
Ah! Brushing teeth! That long-awaited moment of the day. A mental warm-up to get my brain ready for anything. A physical warm-up to face the challenge.
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Burnout or a mid-30s crisis?
I don’t know exactly where or when, but it hit me right in the face, like a bucket of ice-cold water.
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But why does this even exist?
I have to admit that as I’m writing this, I’m hoping to get some tips and support because, phew… It’s hard! Why do the “terrible twos” even exist?
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Can I love them like an aunt?
For several years now, I’ve been lucky enough to watch my friends’ children grow up.
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Can we please show more kindness toward each…
Before becoming a mother, I knew there was a certain amount of judgment among parents and toward parents… but to be honest with you, I never would have ima
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Caring for Your Baby's Boo-boos
When you become a parent, your first concern becomes your children’s health. Yes, food, shelter, and clothes—but above all, health.
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Childcare providers: Are they our superheroes…
Yesterday, I attended my first two parent meetings at my children’s daycare.
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Childhood Trauma
I was 7 years old when my heart stopped. In the dim light of the hallway, I witnessed a horrific scene: a baby being shaken.
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Christmas Through His Eyes
In one of your distant memories, from when you were 5 or 6 years old, you remember how magical Christmas was.
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Christmas Without Them
Being separated parents often involves much more than you might think.
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Continue in the 1st year
I never had much trouble in school. I wasn’t at the top of my class, but I did pretty well without having to put in a lot of effort.
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Crafts
Let’s be honest—I’m a crafty person, a paper-fiddler , a pencil addict, a scrapbooking fan… a crafty person, for real!
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Crazy Tuesdays: A Break from the Routine
Experts will agree that kids need routine, but as a mom, I’ll tell you that sometimes it’s good to spice up our daily routine.
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Dad and prison—stay strong, kid!
You know how to make this little guy happy: a little fishing trip, a weekend of camping, a bag of candy, a few bucks for his piggy bank, some nice promises
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Dad, I owe you one
Growing up, getting a job, buying your first home, and having children—all of these things come with their own set of responsibilities.
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Dad, you mean the world to me!
Fatherhood was long sidelined. Men were mostly relegated to the role of providers and played very little part in raising their children.
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Dear teachers, I would like to tell you...
Dear teachers, I believe I speak for all parents in Quebec when I say this: THANK YOU!
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Depression and Lockdown
Almost all of us have been in lockdown for a few weeks now. Some find the time dragging on, while others are making the most of it.
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Discoveries
1-Feet You, my little guy, are discovering all sorts of things. You know just a tiny fraction of what we adults know.
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Divorce with Children
Everyone dreams of the perfect life, and I believed in it too. I got married young and had my children young as well. I had a job and a beautiful home.
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Don't cry, my baby, Mommy's here
I thought I had experience—after all, I’ve raised five children… But experience doesn’t change much, and I often feel helpless when I see your tears, my ba
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Don't do this!
Here, I’ll provide information and helpful advice to support new moms and ensure the well-being of the newborn. Why?
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Don't Forget About Yourself
Don’t put off until tomorrow what you can do today. You’ve probably heard that before.
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Don't stare at the cleaning crew!
Seriously, if you come over to my place, don't look at the mess! I'll admit that even before guests arrive, I kick myself in the butt a little and pick up
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Don't touch my baby
At Go, we educate our mothers, our grandmothers, our fathers, our grandfathers, and so on! Go! Don't touch my baby!
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Drugs even destroy families
Today I feel like writing—or rather, screaming at the whole world—but more specifically at you, the father of my child, who chose to give up everything for
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Even Numbers
I’m on the verge of believing that all even numbers are cursed…. The number two—commonly known as the “terrible twos” —makes us see our little miracle as a
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Every child develops in their own way
Élody! At two months old, she responded to her name, was always smiling, (almost) never slept, and never had any growth spurts, colic, or crying spells.
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Everything and Its Opposite
I’ve already mentioned this in another post, but being a parent means dealing with everything and its opposite. All. The. Time.
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Except Once…At The Cabin!!!
I’m not the kind of mom who takes time away from her kids. I’ve gone on the occasional romantic weekend getaway, but never ALONE… except once.
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Feeling Forgotten
When you feel like you’re doing everything, like every obstacle hits you before it hits anyone else.
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First Letter to My Son...
When I was about to give birth to my first child, I had my labor induced. With a knot of fear in my stomach, I woke up way too early and wrote this letter.
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From a trio to a quartet?
Since December 2018, our duo has become a trio. After my difficult delivery, I’m nowhere near ready to have a second child.
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From me, to you
It takes two to make a baby! 46 chromosomes. 50% dad, 50% mom. You were bound to look a little like me—have the same nose or my piggy face.
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Future ladies' man… Or maybe a men's man
One day, my son was wearing a T-shirt that my godmother had kindly given him, which read “Future ladies’ man.” It was an innocent little T-shirt, and my so
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Germs!
An unexpected visitor! Here’s every household’s arch-enemy. You’re driving my little ones up the wall. Who likes seeing their child struggle to breathe?
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Get some rest! (But not too much.)
Summer is finally here! Vacation is coming! It’s time for festivals, potato festivals, the zoo, water parks, and… preachy articles about parents on vacatio
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Getting Ready for the New Year
As the new year approaches, I found myself wondering what I could do differently to mark this change in the calendar.
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Grief in Sports
Grief in sports is undoubtedly a minor form of grief. Even though some parents take it harder than others, at its core, it doesn’t involve anything as seri
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Halloween Sucks
When I was a kid, I couldn’t wait for Halloween. As soon as October rolled around, I couldn’t wait for the leaves to fall so I could make pumpkins out of o
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Happy September!
After two months of vacation, warm weather, the beach, and camping, it’s now time to head back to school.
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Having a child doesn't change the…
… well, actually, it does, a little. Shot glasses have been replaced by sippy cups and plastic spoons (which get mixed up with the coffee spoons).
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Head in the Sand
I often feel out of step with today’s society, for many reasons. However, I’m very aware that there’s a wave of willful blindness regarding what the future
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Her name is Caro
Just Caro. Because when I say Caroline, no one at home knows who I’m talking about.
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Here and now…
Sometimes I hate my cell phone… I resisted for a long time (a very long time), but then I gave in.
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Here's to you, the perfectly imperfect mom
To you, who can sing your child's favorite song 150,000 times in a single day.
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Hi, I'm Juju!
Hi! My name is Juju, and I’m two years old. I’m small, but my brother is big—he’s six and goes to school. Well, not right now, anyway.
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How can I set boundaries without coming…
Ever since kindergarten, the school has raised some red flags about my son’s social skills.
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I argue in front of my kids
I recently realized that I argue in front of my kids. I didn’t know that this was one of those “Education 2000” issues you have to be careful about.
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I Choose You
Choosing a godfather or godmother can seem like a headache for many parents. In my case, the choice was clear. To me, a godparent is someone who:
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I don't blame you for being angry with me
A few days ago, you moved into your new home. You were leaving the house where our children were born exactly six weeks after I made the decision to end ou
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I Don't Like Halloween
I Don't Like Halloween The ghoulish decorations scare me or gross me out. I’ve always hated horror movies.
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I don't understand your fears
I’m going to make a little confession here: I feel sad. I know feelings are still a bit complicated for you, my sweet baby.
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I don't want children…
I don’t want children because I was sexually abused as a child, and I’m afraid of putting them through the same thing.
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I hate the dentist…
Ever since I was a little girl, I’ve always been absolutely terrified of the dentist.
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I Have No Regrets
We often hear people talk about what they’d like to change in their lives, about their regrets… It’s not uncommon for someone to say, “I should have travel
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I live for my children
I don’t want anything to do with going out to bars every Friday night or hanging out with my girlfriends every day—I live for my kids.
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I love my life, but I'm exhausted
I know I’m going to sound like I’m complaining with my mouth full, but I need to vent.
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I love my makeup
I know that these days, there’s a push to promote inner beauty. While the trend is toward a natural look—with “no-makeup” days and photos of celebrities sh
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I love my son.
In the world we live in, no one prepares us for motherhood. No, people tell us that having a baby means changing diapers, waking up over and over again at
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I miss my baby bump
You’ve grown up, my baby. And yet you’re still so small. Today you’re nine months old, and I can’t help but notice that’s the same amount of time you spent
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I need a vacation!
When school lets out and we put away our backpacks and lunchboxes, it finally means we can relax!
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I rock you while crying
This morning, my baby, you were crying your heart out. I couldn’t put you down on the floor, leave you in your high chair, or put you in your crib.
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I used to love you, but I don't love you…
The accusations, the shouting, the tears, the spirit of revenge taking hold—doing everything to get the biggest piece of the pie. Who’s right, who’s wrong?
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I won the lottery
No, I didn’t become a millionaire—we all know that when I buy a scratch-off ticket, it’s really rare that I win more than a measly $2!
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I'd like to understand what goes on in their…
For more than 2,020 years now, countless bloody murders, horrific rapes, shootings, confinements, and kidnappings have been taking place. Why?
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I'm alone, you're alone, we're alone.
Being a new mother during the pandemic has plunged me into a whirlwind of loneliness, and I don’t know how to get out of it. I’m alone.
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I'm not a helicopter mom
Yes, yes, you read that right—I’m not a helicopter mom. I believe that kids should be kids—they need to learn how to fall and get back up.
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I'm talking to myself
Of all the things people forgot to tell me before I became a mom, the one I’m sharing here is one of the most important.
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iDad
In our family, we have iDad. No, no—that’s not a typo. iDad is the dad my kids have for two-thirds of the year. Let me introduce you to iDad.
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In love, addicted… a divided family
In 2003, I met Éliot. It was true love—the love of my life. He was kind, thoughtful, generous… He had all the right qualities—he was the perfect man—but he
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Is Halloween just for kids? Really?
I have a friend who likes to dress up as a woman. Halloween has a whole new meaning for him. For one night, he can allow himself to be his true self.
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Is my baby a BABI?
Unlike some moms, I was really looking forward to going back to work. Even though I really wanted my baby and love her with an indescribable love, she’s be
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It's just a fly!
It’s summer, the weather’s nice, and it’s hot. You think to yourself, “This is it!
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It's just a game!!
Ever since I was little, I’ve been very active in sports. I’ve played a lot of individual sports, where you alone are in control of your performance, but a
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It’s better than nothing
Since I had to rely on assisted reproduction for all my children, I received more rigorous monitoring than most moms, especially early in my pregnancy.
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It’s done…
After this emotionally charged day, I head home in silence. I did something I wasn’t entirely for or against, because there are always different situations
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I’m judging you…
The word “judge” is a bit of a strong one here. Let’s just say that I disapprove of certain behaviors and that I feel like saying… Seriously? Really?
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I’m on vacation—why do I have to leave the…
I don’t want to get out of bed, I don’t want to get dressed, I don’t want to have to leave the house—I just want to stay warm on my couch.
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I’m raising my kids on my own, and it’s not…
When I think about my life plan, let’s just say I didn’t expect to end up raising my kids on my own… Unfortunately, their father decided the grass was gree
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Just a Little Sweetness
I wrote the piece “Just Some Sweetness” in July 2019. It feels like such a long time ago… It’s now March 2020. We’re in a critical period.
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Just some sweet stuff…
Things have been pretty turbulent lately: among my friends and family, on social media, in the news… Illness, breakups, financial and professional setbacks
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Labels… what are they for?
I might come across as the demanding mom or the one who’s completely in denial about her child’s needs, but I want to make this clear right away: I’m genui
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Law Enforcement and Family Law
Since, as part of my job, I sometimes have to meet with families who need help and advice regarding child custody, I thought a short article on the subject
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Learning to Live Again After the Biggest…
Losing a baby is a difficult ordeal to go through. It’s a grieving process, and sometimes you don’t think you’ll be able to get through this tough time.
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Letter to My Little Baby
My little, tiny baby, life goes by so fast that I don’t want to forget. I want to remember your scent.
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Letter to My Little Brother
I grew up with two brothers—one older and one younger than me—with whom I was about two years apart in age.
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Letter to My Mosquito
This is for you, the little one who was taken from me. Every day, you find your way into my thoughts; every day, until the very end, I will think of you.
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Letter to My School Staff
It’s important to me to write these words to my staff during these very difficult times, in the midst of this pandemic.
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Letting go… they’re just two little words…
Letting go… they’re just two little words… It’s funny, but the words “let go” come up all the time when you’re a parent or hope to be one someday… “Let go
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Letting Them Fly on Their Own
At the start of this journey, we discover a tiny human who is completely dependent on us.
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Lice
I might have had head lice… once… I’ve received at least 10 letters a year from my kids’ school about pediculosis—a fancy but rather ugly word for that pes
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Live out your passions, my child
We can’t say it enough: happiness is found in everything around us. It’s so important to see the beauty—even in the ugly—for the sake of our growth and dev
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Lockdown: Reflections After 5 Weeks
As of this writing, we are beginning our 6th e week of lockdown. In the media, there’s increasing talk of easing restrictions, and we even have a date for
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Losing a loved one who shaped who we are!
Becoming a mom—what a beautiful role. It gives us wings. We feel filled with wonder, and this role opens our eyes, reminding us of our own childhood.
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Losing It 101
First off, there will be those strangers you run into while grocery shopping. They’re pretty nosy, aren’t they?
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Lots and lots of sugar
“Celebrate the return of sunny days and the arrival of spring.” “It’s the Easter Bunny who places the chocolate eggs in the little nests prepared by the ch
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Love Evolves
I sincerely believe, from the bottom of my heart, that like everything else on this beautiful planet, love evolves.
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Love heals everything!
Finding out that your child is sick is like living your worst nightmare.
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Love Isn't Just for Other People
This is the story of a girl named Anais (a fictional name for the purposes of this text).
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Loving Too Much
The best moments of my day are when my youngest needs to drink her milk and I manage to snuggle up close to her without her squirming or wanting to wander
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Loving Your Child from the Very First…
When my first son was born, it was extremely difficult. I don’t think I was ready. I know you’re never really ready, but still.
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Loving Your Child Just as They Are
Let’s love our child just as they really are, without trying to change them and, above all, without letting others do so.
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Mia and Me
My daughter was an accident. A few months before I found out I was pregnant, I’d decided not to have children.
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Mind your own business!
I don’t know if it’s just me, but I’m convinced I’m certainly not the only one going through this.
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Miss C's 30-Second Hugs
There’s hardly anything better for a mom than hugs from her children. They have this ability to make time stand still. My oldest was a clingy baby .
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Mom, Dad, and the gang.
Hi! My name is Charlie! I'm nine years old and I speak English! Sometimes I’m proud and sometimes I’m embarrassed to say I’m bilingual.
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Mom, why are you crying?
Emotions are part of a child’s learning process, but you, my child, I don’t want you to learn to be sad.
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More Complaints: The Sequel
I’m Filing a Complaint Against Screens I sat my son down to watch that show kids love so much—the one where little dogs save the world, and I mean, really
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Murphy's Law for Parents
Murphy’s Law: “Anything that can go wrong will go wrong.” We all know this saying—the one about how toast always lands butter-side down, among other things
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My Angels
I was lucky enough to have known all my grandparents. They were very much alive and even in good health—until very recently.
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MY body, MY family!
I don’t know who I should address this to! The Minister of Health? The Quebec Order of Obstetricians?
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My child
A tribute to you, the little love of my life. My child, you’re so young, and yet you’re already my whole life.
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My child doesn't want to go to school!
5 years old. It’s time. The moment we’ve all been waiting for: My child is about to make their grand entrance into preschool!
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My child has allergies, and I'd like you to…
I’ve heard through the grapevine that school boards might decide to allow nuts in schools again and focus on raising awareness about allergies rather than
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My child is hypersensitive
I quickly noticed that my child was more sensitive to noise and light than the other children around him.
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My Children Were Born in the Wrong Era
I don’t think I was born in the right era: I wish I’d had my kids in the 1990s or 2000s. Actually, I wish I’d had my kids back in my parents’ day. Why?
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My children, thank you for protecting me
My dear children, I’m sorry you have to go through this. This world has turned our lives upside down over the past few months. Yes, it’s new to me, too.
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My dad is the strongest
Ever since I was born, I’ve loved you as big as the sky, my dear father. When I was little, I used to listen to music with you.
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My daughter isn't a Barbie
When I was a child, I was absolutely EVERYTHING that fits the stereotype of a girl.
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My daughter, you’re not the same anymore
My little baby, my little princess. Ever since you were born, I’ve been doting on you and protecting you from the dangers of the outside world.
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My dear breasts
I feel the weight of the inevitable bearing down on me; soon, surely, you will leave me. The feedings are becoming less frequent, and my baby is growing.
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My Experience with Psychoeducation
I often hear parents of children with multiple mental health conditions complain about the lack of resources in public schools.
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My kids
A lot of people thrive on adrenaline, thrills, and those rushes that make you feel alive.
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My little guy, my little chick
You took up residence in my belly very early on; some would say way too early. Just as I was turning 17, you showed up.
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My Long Story of Postpartum Anxiety…
Apparently, 10 to 15% of women experience a condition called postpartum anxiety after giving birth… Thanks to hormonal changes that throw our emotions into
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My love handle on vacation
I don’t really like wearing a swimsuit in front of other people. I’ve had four kids, I have stretch marks, and I’ve got a nice little roll of fat!
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My New Reality
As I write this, I’m in my first week as a single mom. My first week of shared custody.
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My Parents Have Become Grandparents
What are grandparents? Just a title we give to people when their “grown-up babies” have babies of their own? People who give gifts?
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My precious children
You give meaning to my life. When I find myself alone, I miss you. It’s as if a piece of me is missing. The distance between us makes me anxious.
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My relationship with my mother-in-law isn't…
I’ll start this post by saying that I really love my mother-in-law. She’s a woman I greatly admire—someone who has taken care of her family her whole life
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My separation was the worst and the best…
Five years ago, reality hit me like a ton of bricks: I was no longer in love with the father of my children.
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My Social Media "Front"
In our society, there are many taboo topics. Over the years, certain causes have come a long way in raising public awareness.
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My Spring Break Savings
Since I wasn’t able to take time off work during the holidays, I found myself with the option of taking spring break as vacation.
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My uterus, my choice!
When I got pregnant for the first time, everyone was thrilled. People didn’t really ask if it was planned or what I was going to do.
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My wonderful teens...
But somewhere around age 11 or 12, somewhere between changing body shapes and the appearance of pimples, people’s attitudes shift.
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My world came crashing down… twice!
When I was little, I had this desire, this ambition to become a mother.
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National monuments?
During my first pregnancy, I spent a long time wondering what would drive me the craziest. Would it be everyone’s “auntie advice”?
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No “Single Parenting” This Week
Yeah! Dad’s back home—I’ll finally get some help taking care of the kids, catch up on sleep, split the household chores, and maybe even have some time to m
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Now it’s time to say goodbye
I met you, and we fell in love. Now it’s time to part ways. Unfortunately, our story as a couple ends here.
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Ode to My Grandfather
Most little girls look up to their fathers, and that’s perfectly normal. For me, it’s my grandfather.
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On Earth Day
As a parent, you’re often faced with a whirlwind of birthday gifts, one-time-use lunch portions, and clothes that come and go from the house as our kids gr
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One in 240
My baby. I’m sorry. After 17 weeks of pregnancy, I’m writing to you for the first time, and it’s not even to tell you how much your presence inside me fill
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One too many doubts.
Isn’t living with doubt just part of almost everyone’s life? We doubt all the time.
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Our Bond, My Big Boys
Ever since the day I decided to have children, I knew I would fall in love with this new part of myself. I knew I was deeply meant to be a mom.
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Our Four-Legged Babies
In life, very often, before having a baby, we adopt a cat or a dog… Sometimes a goldfish, but it’s less likely to live 12 years and is much less entertaini
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Our Life Before
Do you realize just how much we took for granted right before the current crisis?
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Our Men
Father’s Day is coming up soon, and I want to take this opportunity to pay tribute to the two fathers in my life: my dad and my son’s dad.
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Packing lunches: an Olympic sport?
As far back as I can remember, I’ve never made myself a lunch five days in a row. I lack discipline, but mostly interest!
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Planning for the Holidays After a Recent…
With the separation still painful, we have to plan our first holiday schedule.
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Politeness 2.0
When I was 6 years old, with a gap-toothed smile and eyes full of questions, I learned how to navigate society; I understood that there are social rules—wr
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Potty training... Fun?! Nah!
Getting your kid potty-trained! Oh boy! Let’s be honest… it’s not my favorite part of parenting!
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Pressure to Stay Clean
I really felt the pressure when my oldest son’s teacher told me he’d have to be potty-trained within two weeks because he was switching groups, and in that
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Professional Photo Shoots
Before I had kids, I don’t think I’d ever set foot in a photography studio in my life (with the exception of my elementary school photos, which were taken
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Random Complaints
It happens fairly often that I’m alone with my two boys—ages 4 and 6 months—when we go out, including to that dreaded grocery store… Lately, I’ve run into
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Reaching New Heights
In the first few months of our children’s lives, we watch them grow and develop.
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Rediscovering the Magic
I’m moderately anxious. My daughters are also anxious (one more so than the other).
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Respect for Single Parents
I came up with the idea for this post while I was taking a shower and my 3-year-old daughter was yelling at me to come play with her for the 29th time.
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Rest is when
I remember back in high school that famous saying, “Chill out, man !" Now that I'm 32, all I want to do is CHILL OUT.
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Same, Yet Different
I have a child with special needs—a child who requires special attention and who asks us, as a family, to make special compromises.
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Second Baby, We Need to Talk
Hi, my second baby! (And to any others out there—you never know.) I need to talk to you.
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Seeing the Bright Side of the Terrible Twos
I've heard so much about the famous terrible twos I was afraid of that. I wasn't looking forward to my daughter turning 2.
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Sex from the Perspectives of Both Genders
I’m writing this anonymously because, since my parents and in-laws probably read my posts on Maman Caféine, I’d feel a little awkward having to explain the
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Should we have another child?
When my partner and I started trying for a baby, we’d always said we wanted two kids in total. No more, no less!
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Sick Baby, Worried Mom
I’m worried. More than worried. Because my baby is sick. She has a fever and other symptoms. But nothing I recognize.
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Single Mom: The Joy of Dating Sites
You’ve just gone through a breakup. It’s not an easy time. You have to come to terms with the loss of the perfect little family you’d dreamed of.
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Small Becomes Big
“With her schoolbag in hand, she leaves home early in the morning Waving goodbye with an absent-minded smile”* The day I found out you were nestled in my w
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So what do we do now?
We can rage all we want against the father and stepmother of this little girl from Granby whose name we don’t know, but the fact remains that it’s the same
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So, when are you guys going to have kids??
I remember, about a dozen years ago now, that time when I didn’t have any kids. Even back then, everyone knew I had only one dream: to be a mom.
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Social Pressure Regarding Potty Training
“How come he’s not potty-trained at his age?” “How come your son is still in diapers?” “It’s about time he started using the toilet!” I’ve heard thousands
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Spoiling Him with Too Much Love
I’ve been criticized before for showing too much affection, for spoiling my son too much—and that’s why he acts out, and that it has nothing to do with aut
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Stay hopeful, girl
I’ve heard that phrase so many times. Too many times. It’s the same kind of encouragement you give a child who didn’t win the race: “It’s all about taking
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Stay the course!
Always stay focused. Stay in control of our lives and the routine that comes with them.
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Stop posting photos of your sick children
I'll never understand that. I'm really the kind of person who believes in "live and let live." Okay, your food.
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Sundays from My Childhood
Every Sunday, it was the same routine: I’d see Grandpa and Grandma coming to pick me up to go to the 9 a.m. Mass at Saint Thomas Church.
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System D
There are moms out there who are the type to rush over and kiss the boo-boo of their child who just fell… well, I’m not that kind of mom!
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Take a deep breath, Mom!
You jumped headfirst into motherhood with a preconceived idea of the kind of mom you were going to be.
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Take Two: A New Chapter
When your baby is born, it’s without a doubt the best day of your life. The start of a new chapter.
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Teach Your Children About Differences
Having children who are all different really teaches us a thing or two about humility, if you’ll please!
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Teaching My Young Children About Consent
The more these #MeToo-style movements sweep through society these days, the more pressure I feel about what I want to teach our children—both our daughters
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That choice you make just once!
Being in a relationship is one thing, and being parents is quite another.
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That Summer
The summer I decided not to send any of them to day camp. Sometimes, I’ll admit, my brain goes a little haywire, and when that happens, well, stuff like th
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That's a joke!!!
My ex was the king of corny jokes on the 1st er April! Do you know any little pranksters? This was a far cry from a fish stuck to your back!
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The animal kingdom doesn't like my child
When my daughter was a baby, I wouldn’t let my Chihuahua near her for fear he’d bite her.
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The Anticipation of Pregnancy
Many people will tell me that I should be content with the children I already have—because, yes, I already have four beautiful children.
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The Anxiety of Being a Mother
5:55 a.m. “Mamaaaaaaaan!!” Here we go. Child 1 wakes up 5 minutes before the alarm goes off… as usual.
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The Best Version of Yourself
I met you 14 years ago; we were in the same class. While puberty had already begun for some, little cliques were forming, and people were gradually buildin
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The Child with Elephant Ears
Hello! My name is Malek, I’m 4 years old, but I’ll be turning 5 very soon.
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The Chosen Little Girl
Sweetheart, now that you’ve started school, I’d like to tell you a story. It’s the story of a little girl. She went to school, just like you.
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The Clothesline
I’ve always loved my clothesline. I love the scent that the air, the gentle breeze, and the warmth of the sun leave on the fabrics.
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The Crazy Race
You start out with the best of intentions. The night before, you make a plan and “remind” them to get a good night’s sleep and have a perfect morning so yo
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The day before yesterday….
School ended with a special event, as if to fuel the excitement even more.
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The day I lost you…
I waited so long for you, my sweet little baby. After several long months of dealing with the disappointment of my period cramps returning, I’d finally got
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The Emergency
Like all moms, you deeply hope your baby will never get sick. Let’s be realistic: that’s about as likely as winning $60 million in the lottery.
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The End of Your Early Childhood
In a few days, you’ll start kindergarten. You’ll also have your last day at daycare.
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The Famous Walt Disney Parent
I recently saw a social worker to address some personal issues. From those sessions, I came away with the phrase “the Walt Disney parent.” Do you have any
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The Fear of Having Another Child
During my fourth pregnancy, I was asked several times if I was afraid my fourth child might be autistic.
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The first man in my life…
Who would have thought that such a small word—just six letters long—could have such a huge impact?
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The Flower
In an effort to keep my house somewhat clean (let’s just say that with two kids, I’ve given up on my ideal of what a clean house looks like), I vacuum beca
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The Glue Party
For my oldest child’s last party, I had what I considered (and still consider) the best idea ever for entertaining the kids—and maybe even their parents a
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The Latest Little Angel
When I saw the positive result on the pregnancy test on June 27, it was a magical day for me and my partner.
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The Life You Want for Your Child at School
When we think about school for our child, two things come to mind: tears and joy. We can hardly believe we’ve already reached this point.
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The Little Angels
When the last school bell rings, the students will jump for joy! When the kids start getting restless, eagerly awaiting the arrival of all those beautifull
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The Most Colorful Hallway
Recently, I had to take my 14-month-old son to the hospital because he keeps getting ear infections.
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The Neat Mom
I’m a super-neat mom. I’ll admit it. And here, I’m not talking about my house or myself. Although… Anyway, I’m talking about my baby.
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The Never-Ending Return of Germs
Unfortunately, summer has come to an end, much to my regret. I imagine I’m not the only one who already misses it!
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The one who screams, the one who screams
As Marjo's song goes, "The one who goes, the one who goes"… With a few changes. I wonder when this will end.
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The Other Parent
It’s a fact: more and more couples are splitting up. We fall in love; we decide to start a family; we think we’ll spend the rest of our lives with that per
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The Paths Along Your Journey
Do you ever take the time to pause during your week, month, or year? Do you reflect on your life as it is now?
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The perfect mother doesn't have any children
Motherhood isn’t like it is in the pictures All those lovely theories and unsolicited advice about bedtime, pacifiers, tantrums, routines, meals, potty tra
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The Person I Used to Be
I was strong, proud, and full of life. I charged straight ahead, head held high.
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The Planet as a Gift
Giving every child a pile of gifts as big as a planet for Christmas? What a dream!!
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The Powers of a Child Worthy of a Movie Role
A child can do just about anything. Act? “Fafa, baby!” He loves so deeply that he can bring a tear to your eye.
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The privileged…
It started right from the beginning… When you were pregnant, you had an amazing baby shower, with tons of thank-yous to send for the thousand and one thing
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The Rainbow Flag Kid
My parents separated just as I was starting elementary school. I was young and carefree. I lived with my mom and saw my dad a few weekends a month.
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The Relief of Taking Time
Quarantine is a great way… to get on each other’s nerves. Your boyfriend is driving you crazy.
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The Right Age to Have a Child
What’s the ideal age to have a child? When is the perfect time in life to start a family? In your 20s, or your 30s?
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The second home I chose for you
“Kadi”—that name you keep saying over and over in your little voice full of smiles.
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The Soundtrack of My Life
When I wake up in the morning, my ears are filled with music. And what about my days! No, not the coffee grinder my husband is using right now.
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The Terrible Twos—watch out, they really do…
When people told me about the terrible twos , naive as I was, I didn’t believe in this “phenomenon.” As if all our kids were robots programmed to start act
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The TV Shows That Shape Adolescence
Back in my day, sex, alcohol, proms, and murders were practically unheard of in our TV shows.
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The Vegetable War
At my house, it’s probably not much different from yours. At every meal (or almost every meal), there’s always one of the kids (or even all of them) who po
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There’s a sense of “normality” in the air…
Tonight, I gently cuddled my children as they slept soundly before going to bed myself.
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These Screens That Are Taking Over Our Lives
I love being connected on my cell phone: Facebook , Messenger , little games, emails, and so on.
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Things Not to Say
Sometimes I think it would be helpful for everyone—moms and non-moms alike—to compile a list of phrases that should never, under any circumstances, be said
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This sport you’re so passionate about.
What you do on weeknights and some weekends, you do out of passion. Even before we met, you were already giving your time.
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This weekend, I took a much-needed trip
This weekend, I took an essential trip outside my region: I went to visit my grandfather. My grandfather is 92 years old.
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Those Darn Ear Infections
Seriously, what are these EAR INFECTIONS? Just a simple earache? A bug that mainly affects kids? A complication from a simple little cold?
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Tick-tock… And time flies
The weeks fly by at breakneck speed. We’ve barely started Monday, and suddenly it’s already Thursday night.
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Time flies by too fast…
This past weekend was my youngest daughter’s sixth birthday, and I was struck by just how fast life goes by.
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Time for Two
I’ve heard time and again that love isn’t divided—it’s multiplied. No matter how strong the bond you share with your first baby, you’ll be overwhelmed by a
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To all of you whom I consider my second parents
Today, I want to speak to you. You who are always there for me with love and kindness.
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To the child I’ll never have
I’m writing this letter knowing full well that you’ll never read it. It’s not that I wouldn’t have wanted to carry you in my womb, or that I wouldn’t want
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To you, the mom whose child cries in public…
When I had my daughter, I was afraid to go out alone with her, worried she might suddenly start crying and be inconsolable.
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To you, the “father-who-isn’t-a-father.”
You came into my life, and from our very first conversation, I told you that I had a 6-month-old daughter and that she was my priority.
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To you, who have doubts about your child's…
To you, the parent who’s upset because your child lost a sock: Know that at this age, kids are constantly taking off pieces of their clothes.
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Today, choose yourself—slow down.
Work, school, family, relationships, kids, household chores, and cooking… our responsibilities just keep piling up.
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Today, it’s harder…
It’s obvious there will be bad days. Difficult days when simply putting one foot in front of the other to work (from home), entertain, and educate the kids
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Toys
There are days when I hate the people who invent kids’ toys. I never thought I’d become this obsessed with testing out toys before buying them—at least not
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Tweens
I made it through the first few nights, the teething, the " terrible twos " and " f**king four ", My daughters are 8 and 11 years old. Tweens!
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Upcycle Your Moving Leftovers
That’s it! You did it! You’ve survived your move! Sure, there’s probably still plenty left to do, but you and your little ones have made it to your new pla
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Vacation: The Art of Letting Go
That’s it—vacation is finally here! The one you’ve been waiting for all year. The one you worked so hard for, putting in all those hours.
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Warning... a woman in the making
Warning: I’m not lumping all girls together, but from talking with friends, there are a lot of similarities among girls.
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We raise our children differently, but we…
I have a dear friend of nearly 15 years. We met in high school and hit it off right away.
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We'll get through this
Thank you to everyone who, without giving in to panic, is taking things seriously and has chosen not to bury their heads in the sand.
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Well, then
Well! I’m aware that today’s topic won’t be the most popular one. I even expect to have a brick, a lantern, a chair, a cross, and probably a statue of the
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We’re all different… well, yes and no!
Lately, I’ve been hearing this phrase a lot whenever I say my kids are different: “Yeah, but we’re all different in some way.” I have blue eyes, and my nei
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What do I look like?
This morning is pure panic—I’m going through a terrible ordeal, the nightmare of an outdated wardrobe.
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What I Will Teach My Children
In our society filled with war and violence, screens and technology, inequality and injustice, and role models—both female and male—that leave much to be d
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What I wish for us…
The year is drawing to a close. For some of us, it was made unforgettable by the arrival of a new family member, a new relationship, a promotion, or positi
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What if I wasn't strong enough?
I’ve always wanted to bring them into the world, to become their mom. For as long as I can remember, they’ve been part of the plan, part of my future.
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What if we told each other we love each other?
In this vast world, we were lucky enough to meet. We looked up at the same moment, and our eyes met.
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What New Parents Need to Know About Fall!
Who doesn’t love fall? The leaves and the scent they give off. The traffic jams and those majestic palettes of colors. The season of squash and soups.
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What's for dinner?
To be honest, the question “What’s for dinner?” is THE question that’s gotten on my nerves the most since I became a mom.
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What?! My baby is in a breech position?
Is he sitting in my belly? What’s going on—doesn’t he understand how a fetus’s life works?!
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When Dad Is on Parental Leave
I’m one of those lucky moms who doesn’t get paid parental leave, but Dad gets it instead!
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When did I lose control?
What’s a typical weekend day like at your house? Here, the kids sleep well, eat well, and take care of themselves.
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When everything becomes clear!
Becoming a mom—what a wonderful role. It gives us wings. We feel good, filled with wonder.
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When I met you, it wasn't love at first sight
When we’re browsing the “Internet,” scrolling through our Facebook news feed, peeking in on the neighbors, or even when we’re grocery shopping, we see love
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When is the right time?
Should I make the decision now? Should I give us some more time? What could change at this point?
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When the Teacher Is the Bully
We often talk about bullying as an abuse of power—sometimes at work, sometimes at school—depending on age.
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Who can you trust more than yourself?
Have you ever asked yourself this question, or have you found yourself coming to this realization?
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Who says pink is just for girls?
I’m so fed up… I can’t stand seeing and hearing comments like, “I’m looking for a diaper bag for a girl, a stroller for a boy, early learning toys for a ba
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Who will we vote for?
Dear candidates for the office of Prime Minister, You all have great ideas and excellent promises! You seem smart—most of the time.
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Why you?
YOU, the father of my daughter. The one who gave me everything I’ve ever wanted: love.
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Will you be able to understand me?
It took me so long to find our family balance. After going through postpartum depression, I didn’t know where I fit in our family anymore.
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Windows: New Works of Modern Art
I love windows; I love the light they bring into my home. I love the natural light and the view of the bird’s nest in the tree.
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With the changing of the seasons…
Over the years, season after season, amid the frantic pace of pants that were too short and shoes that had become too tight, I’ve felt this nostalgia growi
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Would you stay if that were the case?
I know you’ve always wanted to have children of your own—for as long as I’ve known you. I’d love to have children with you, too. When? I really don’t know.
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You Are So Much More Than a Percentage
Even at birth, a baby boy is more likely to die than a baby girl… In his first four years of life, he’s more likely to be hospitalized.
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You Have Time to Have Another One
Today, I’ve decided to address a taboo subject: perinatal bereavement.
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You want another baby, but...
How can you convince yourself that it’s okay? That you have beautiful children.
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You'll miss this version of yourself
You’re only 3 years old, and I’ve already known four little versions of you. First there was the newborn, my first baby.
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You're more than just a pair of breasts
I think I can safely say that this has happened to all of us: Dad (or someone else) was trying his best to calm the baby, but as soon as Mom picked him up,
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You, My Unique Child
Over the past few years, the diagnoses have come in. There are still a few more to come.
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Your Childlike Heart
Because sometimes, as parents, we feel completely overwhelmed by our daily grind—commute, work, sleep—and we forget that happiness is found in the little t
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Your Day in the Mud
In general, you like your life. But sometimes, everything goes wrong. It starts with that night when you barely slept at all.
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Your Indifference Toward Your Children
A message for absent fathers and mothers facing this sad situation... Your indifference toward your children hurts.
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Your Mom Body
I’ve always been slim—just like that, without doing anything. Having kids hasn’t changed that much.
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Your own "terrible twos," Baby 2.
Poor you, 2 e terrible twos to end up at my place. You’re already in trouble twice over; you’re the black sheep—in short, you have all the traits associate
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Your Path Lays Out
They got married, lived happily ever after, and had many children. Who hasn’t heard a fairy tale that ends this way?
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Your Perfectly Imperfect Boyfriend
Ever since you had your first child, you’ve been reading a lot of articles about unfit fathers.
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Your Smartphone vs. Your Kids
2020. The age of social media and smartphones. The age of parents who spend a little less quality time with their kids because they’re too busy judging Suz
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Your Tantrum, Big Guy
This morning, big guy, you had a huge tantrum. A massive, over-the-top tantrum for what had happened.